Nov 9, 2012
Maybe you have longed for healing, a job, a baby, a wife.
You have faithfully and earnestly prayed for weeks and months — even years.
But you are still sick, still unemployed, still childless, still single.
And you are disappointed. In fact, you are disappointed by God.
I Can Relate
For many years my wife and I longed for pregnancy. We longed and prayed. And longed and prayed some more.
Couples we knew got pregnant — but we did not.
And we felt deep disappointment.
But God’s Word calls us to live by faith. And faith means trusting all that God promises to be to us in Christ Jesus.
So — what does God promise when we are disappointed?
Lack No Good Thing
One promise that’s helped me over the years is Psalm 34:10 —
The young lions suffer want and hunger; but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing.
This promise is for those who seek the Lord — those who are saved by faith in Christ and are seeking to know God.
And God promises that those who seek the Lord will lack no good thing.
Which means that if something is good — God will give it to you.
Now that’s hard to swallow. After all, you are still sick, unemployed, childless, or single.
So how is God fulfilling that promise to you?
The Greatest Good
What helped me understand this was to ask — What is the greatest good?
Here’s what David said —
I say to the LORD, “You are my Lord; I have no good apart from you.” Psalm 16:2
And Asaph —
Whom have I in heaven but You? And besides You I desire nothing on earth. Psalm 73:25
And Paul —
Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. Philippians 3:8
So the greatest good is God Himself — knowing God in the person of Jesus Christ.
This is not just knowing about God. This is actually knowing God. This means to feel His glory, sense His love, experience His presence.
When we experience God in this way, we are so full that we desire nothing else. God is the only all-satisfying good, which is why he is the greatest good.
So what does God mean when He promises we will lack no good thing?
Healing can be good — but so can lack of healing
If God is our greatest good, then what makes something good is whether it brings us more of God.
So being healed of a sickness can be good since it can bring us more of God by showing us His power, mercy, and goodness.
But not being healed can also be good since it, too, can bring us more of God by bringing us even more nearness to Him.
That’s what Paul experienced with his thorn in the flesh —
But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. (2Cor 12:9)
So if God chooses not to heal me, it’s because sickness will bring me even more of His all-satisfying presence than healing would have brought me.
In that case, even though I’m lacking healing, I’m not lacking any good thing — because the sickness is how I will experience the most joy in God.
Since God is my all-satisfying Treasure — then what makes something good is whether it brings me more of God.
So when God promises that we will lack no good thing, He means we will lack nothing that would bring us more of God and we will have everything that would bring us more of God.
So if you lack healing, or a job, or children, or a wife, you are not lacking any good thing. Because God has ordained this to bring you even more of himself.
Why Am I Disappointed?
When I feel disappointed by God it’s because at that moment there’s something I’m longing for more than him, whether it be healing, employment, a child, or a wife.
But as good as healing, employment, children, and marriage are, none of them will come close to satisfying me as much as He Himself will.
So when I’m disappointed by God there’s a problem with my faith. I’m not trusting that God himself is who he says he is for me in Jesus. I’m not trusting him as my all-satisfying Treasure.
So what can I do?
How to Overcome Disappointment?
Here are steps I have found helpful —
- Come to Jesus Christ with your disappointment, trusting Him to meet you and change your heart (Psa 40:1-3).
- Confess that you are longing for something else more than Him. Ask Him to forgive you through the Cross. Receive assurance of complete forgiveness (1John 1:9).
- Plead for the work of the Spirit to change your heart, strengthen your faith, enable you once again to experience Jesus Christ as your all-satisfying Treasure (John 6:35).
- Since the Spirit does His work through the Word, find Scriptures describing God’s love, power, and majesty — and promises concerning God as your all-satisfying Treasure. Pray earnestly over these Scriptures. Fight to trust them (Gal 3:5).
- Continue praying over and trusting these Scriptures until you feel the Spirit changing your heart and you once again experience Jesus Christ as your all-satisfying Treasure (1Pet 1:8).
- Pray over God’s promise that He will ordain every trial to bring you even more heart-satisfaction in Him (2Cor 4:17). Do this until the Spirit strengthens your faith that whatever you lack will bring you even more of God.
- Also pray over God’s promise that He will take care of everything else you need (health, work, money) in such a way that it will bring you even more of Him (Phil 4:13; Phil 4:19; Mat 6:33).
- Continue to pray for the other things you desire (healing, employment, children, marriage), but fight to keep trusting Jesus as your all-satisfying Treasure (Psa 43:4).
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